Mistakes * We go through lives making a lot of mistakes .This cannot be avoided . Sometimes the mistakes are minor in nature but sometimes they are serious ; depending on the circumstances.  How do you feel about the mistakes you made ? Do you turn a blind eye to them or do you define  your mistakes and try to make amend and to ratify them ? Or do you blame others for your mistakes? Which category do you belong to?  * If you are the type that recognize your mistake and try to make amend  for it ; you have positive thinking .After all ,  that mistake is now a history .Life goes on ! As soon as you have realized your mistake is going to cost you a lot , you admit your mistake to those around you and you try to  ratify it .You may actually have to pay for your mistakes , but ,  the more you pay for it the more positive values you get for it . Your friends too , can help you along with the noble attempt  , that  is , if you have the right type of friends . You come out of it stronger .  * If you are the type that turn a blind eye to the mistake you have made  and just let time tide over it . Well , you are the average person .You are one of the many in this world that just go through life vegetating .Come what may ; you cannot be bothered .You pay for your mistake and perhaps live from one mistake to another mistake .Your whole life is a mistake ( just joking of course )  !  You gonna exert  yourself more , boy  !   * If you are the type that blame others for your mistake or look for a scapegoat for your mistake ,  what does that make you ?  * It's time you start thinking !   * By Agatha Lai ©